Let’s get raw here – everybody has some weird kinks in their closet. It’s just not everybody lets them out. So, if you’ve already recognized that you’ve got some kind of a fetish going on there, it’s halfway to your sexual liberation.
What are the next steps?
First, don’t even think about feeling ashamed or awkward about them. These things are the very core emotions and feelings that make you who you are. Talk to your companion openly about them!
Second, watch some porn related to your kink together. This can be BDSM, BBC or Japanese pornstars. Whatever makes you horny is OK in the sexual department.
Third, try role-playing with your girlfriend. You’ll be surprised how fun and liberating it can be to get out of your skin from time to time.
You’ll instantaneously feel all those limitations and prohibitions evaporate into thin air, opening you to some extreme and reward sexual experiences.
As you can see, you can actually successfully integrate those kinks into your sexual practices, having some good shared fun in the bedroom together with your girl!